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Not a Problem

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Not a Problem Mental health isn’t a problem—it’s just a part of life, like feeling hungry or needing rest. It’s about how we think, feel, and handle everything that comes our way. Some days we feel good and full of energy, and other days, we feel low, tired, or just not ourselves. That’s completely okay. Everyone feels this way at times. Mental health simply means how we are doing inside—how our heart and mind are feeling. It’s not something scary or something to hide. It’s just a sign that we’re human . Sometimes, we all need a little help—whether it’s someone to talk to, someone to understand us, or even just someone to sit with us in silence. Wanting support is normal. It doesn’t make us weak or needy. In fact, it means we’re brave enough to say, “Hey, I need a little help right now.” That’s not a bad thing. That’s honest, and it’s real. We all help each other in different ways. If a friend is carrying something heavy, we offer to carry it with them.  Mental  ...

When Period Cramps Feel Like Old Friends

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There’s a strange relationship I’ve developed with my period cramps over the years. They’re uninvited, yes, but oddly familiar—like old friends who overstayed their welcome yet taught me something every time. No one can truly heal me during these days, but there’s always a tiny voice inside me whispering, “This, too, shall pass.” Cramps have a knack for turning up at the worst times. They don’t care if you’ve got a big day ahead or if all you want is peace. They arrive unannounced, dragging along their baggage of aches, nausea , and emotional chaos. But as much as I despise them, they’ve also been a strange kind of teacher. The Lessons My Cramps Teach Me Patience in Pain When the sharp pangs kick in, I’m forced to pause. Life doesn’t offer much room for rest, but cramps make me slow down, listen to my body, and give it the care it deserves. It’s a reminder to nurture myself, even when I’d rather power through. Strength I Forget I Have Each time the waves of pain come and g...

Rooms in my mind

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In the vast, tangled web of thoughts that is my mind, there are rooms—spaces that I can enter and leave at will, spaces where my emotions, thoughts, and memories live. Some rooms are warm and welcoming, while others are cold and distant. Some make me feel safe, others make me uneasy. But all of them are mine, reflections of who I am, who I was, and who I am becoming. Each room tells a story. Some stories are louder, some softer. Some are filled with joy, while others are burdened with sadness. They exist side by side, creating the complex, sometimes overwhelming experience of simply being me. The Room of Loneliness: An Empty Echo The room of loneliness is the first one I find myself in when I feel disconnected from everything around me. It’s cold, and there’s a kind of stillness in the air that presses in on me, wrapping me in its quiet. The walls are bare, the kind of empty that echoes with silence. There are no photographs of people who care for me, no knick-knacks that r...

The Family Trauma

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Family is meant to be the place where you find comfort, where love is given freely, and where you feel safe and supported through all of life’s challenges. But what happens when family doesn’t feel like home? What happens when the very people who should care for you seem to ignore your needs, your feelings, and your existence? It’s a quiet kind of pain that settles in when your every need is met in a physical sense but ignored emotionally. They give you food, but not the nourishment your soul craves. They tell you to sleep, but they never ask if you’re truly at peace. They remind you to take your medicine, but they don’t see the invisible wounds you carry inside. There’s no embrace when the world feels heavy, no gentle touch to reassure you that you’re not alone. It’s like living in a house full of people, but never really being seen or heard. Every conversation feels like a one-way street. You try to express your thoughts, your struggles, your dreams, but no one listens. I...

The Fascinating Phenomenon of Déjà Vu

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Have you ever had that strange feeling of experiencing something that you feel like you’ve already lived through before? Maybe it was a certain place, a specific moment, or a familiar face. This eerie experience is known as Déjà Vu, a French term meaning “already seen”. It is a phenomenon that has captivated the minds of scientists and individuals alike for centuries. Let’s dive into the fascinating world of Déjà Vu and unravel its mysteries. Déjà Vu is commonly described as an overwhelming sense of familiarity with a current experience, despite knowing that it is impossible to have actually experienced it before. The sensation is often accompanied by a feeling of confusion or disorientation, leaving the person questioning their own memory and perception of reality. It can last for just a few seconds or even minutes, but the impact can be long-lasting. This phenomenon has been documented throughout history, with reports dating back to ancient times. The Greek philosopher Ar...

"Personality and Relationships"

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Personality plays a pivotal role in shaping and influencing the dynamics of a relationship. It serves as the unique fingerprint that defines an individual, and when two personalities come together in a relationship, their distinct traits can create a harmonious blend or give rise to challenges. Compatibility often hinges on the alignment of personalities. Individuals with similar traits may find it easier to connect and understand each other. For instance, if both partners are extroverted and enjoy socializing, their shared outgoing nature can contribute to a vibrant and socially active relationship. On the other hand, a pairing of introverted individuals may lead to a more intimate and reserved connection. Communication styles also reflect personality in a relationship. Someone with an assertive personality may express themselves openly and directly, while a more passive partner might prefer subtle cues or non-verbal communication. Understanding and respecting these differ...

I HAVE TWO GENIE

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"Everyone must have heard a story in childhood or seen it on television in the cartoon "Aladdin". In this story, a boy finds a magic lamp. When he rubs it lightly, a giant genie appears and says that he can grant him three wishes., "Order my master, you have three wishes that I can fulfill, but please ask for your wish thoughtfully." We all must have thought at one time or the other that we wish we could get a magic lamp.  But we never thought and what we don't realize is that we already have two genies in our lives: our parents.  who fulfill our every wish without any warning and without asking for anything in return.  They neither say that they will fulfill only three wishes, nor do they say think before asking.   Rather, they fulfill our every wish without asking. If we have ever asked our parents for something and if for some reason at that time the parents refused to bring that thing, then we feel very angry and we feel that th...

If He Does then Its fine,If She Does She is Characterless

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The thinking of some people is limited only to this that whatever they want to do, they do everything themselves, but when it comes to their own sister, then such people first start remembering respect, dignity and society. The thinking of some people is that whatever they wish to do themselves, but when it comes to their own sister, then such people remember the honor and society first.Of course, girls are free, in their family, they can do everything they want, but even today, in every house, more boys are heard and believed than girls.Girls have the ability to mold themselves in every situation. She also tolerates some things silently because she does not want to hurt her family. Not every girl takes care of this and not every boy understands these things.If the boy falls in love with his sister's friend and wants to marry her, the family will approve, but if the girl falls in love with her brother's friend and wants to marry him, then on the contrary, she will b...

Value of Life

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Everywhere there is a view of ruins,Somewhere someone is dying,Somewhere someone is helpless to meet loved ones.Some are suffering from poverty, hunger, while some are also troubled in luxuries.Someone is worried whether food will be available in the evening or not?So someone is wasting food at great parties.Somebody lost everyone in this corona pandemic So someone is the farthest in spite of everyone.Don't know how long all this will last, but do not keep distance from your loved ones, increase your closeness with your loved ones.Everything is changing with the passage of time, parents are getting old.Sit with them sometime, make them a part of your life too.Sometimes make them laugh at your words too.In this runaway life, everyone is busy in themselves but, atleast sometimes try to spend two moments at leisure with parents.Because no matter how much you earn or how much good work you do, but nothing is more precious than the happiness of parents. Learn to appreciate...

A Letter To Prime Minister

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DEAR SIR, Everyone knows that every family, rich, poor, all have become very upset due to this corona epidemic. Due to one after the other lock down, people have also become troubled by staying in homes. Factories, offices of private businessmen are all closed and those who are in government jobs have also not been paid for months, many times they have decided to go on strike.,.,. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . They also tried so that they would get their  salaries on time. Due to which their family members are also facing starvation. Many people have also become indebted due to this corona epidemic.On the other hand, farmers are also facing a lot, they are not getting proper price for their crops. Farmers are also holding their sit-in demonstrations, but now no attention is being paid to them.Due to the Corona epidemic, the schools of the children which are closed but still there is no obstruction in the demands of some private schools. They don't care a...

You're alone with many others

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Today's era is the age of social media, here everyone from children to old people is crazy about social media and everyone here even shows off their personal life in front of everyone. There will be very few people these days who still use ordinary phones (keypad mobiles), otherwise everyone has got addicted to social media or we can say smartphones. This is good and bad too, in real life, we are able to reach only a few people at a time, and we are not able to make many friends, but through social media, we can spread any issue all over the world. Here we can connect with thousands of crores of people, if anyone is in trouble then this social media has so much power that it can help every person.Sitting together, yet no one cares about anyone nowadays, everyone has become so busy in social media on their phones.Today's era is the era of social media, so if there are 5 members in a house, then the phone will also be five or it can be more.Everyone wants to write the...

GIRL CAN HEAL EVERYTHING

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In society, girls are taught to compromise with their lives in every way. In my view, this is the story of Shivi one such girl who fought fiercely with herself, and those who did not listen to her, taunting her all the time.Thus she brought her life on the right path. At a very young age her father got her married to an uneducated boy in a very rural area, she was accustomed to the modern lifestyle, but did not find any modern lifestyle in her in-laws' house. Shivi thought that she would have to settle for every kind of situation in her in-laws' house. Since she was not so mature and her father had married Shivi and her younger sister with two real brothers in the same house at an early age after the death of her mother, she never took any decision herself. Everyone was giving her own advices for how to live in your in laws house,how to manage your life, how to live with her husband etc.At the time of her first child, she had fallen while taking a bath and her child...

Nature is Life

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If anyone is the most beautiful in this world, it is nature. But man has destroyed the beauty of nature for his comforts. The beauty of the past is nowhere to be seen, the beauty of the past is nowhere to be seen, just the destruction of the environment is visible everywhere. A city covered with a sheet of pollution is visible far and wide. There is neither morning nor evening as before. Man has created so much in the name of progress for his comforts that along with nature, birds are also suffering a lot, gradually all are dying and disappearing. Everyone knows that nowadays is the era of machines, everything is easily done by machines. Within a few moments, however, the animals are being harmed a lot due to the chemicals, wastes being discharged into the rivers by these machines. The environment is getting polluted and due to this animals as well as humans themselves are getting disturbed. Even though man has not planted as many trees as he has cut so far, an...

Farmer's lives matters too

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In today's era every person only cares about himself.He does not care about worldliness, nor does he think anything about the country. Now-a-days news is seen as just entertainment and they comment on those topics while sitting comfortably at home with a cup of tea in hand. There are some news or some topics which cannot be ignored. Everyone knows the ruckus that is rising these days about the farmers and the rally tableaus that the farmers did some time ago to explain their point of view. I also saw many comments on social media some time ago on a post of similar farmers, most  of the people had written thinking only for themselves, nobody wrote anything thinking on behalf of the farmers. A girl had written that these farmers are creating so much ruckus in vain, why they do not do jobs by reading and writing, why do they do farming.I want to answer some such people that no farmer is illiterate, like every subject, agriculture is also studied. But just in th...